To exploit an XXE vulnerability to perform an SSRF attack, you need to define an external XML entity using the URL that you want to target and use the defined entity within a data value. If you can use the defined entity within a data value that is returned in the application's response, then you will be able to view the response from the URL within the application's response, and so gain two-way interaction with the backend system. If not, then you will only be able to perform blind SSRF attacks (which can still have critical consequences).